All this month, we've been talking about shyness. On the flip side of shyness is assertiveness, but it's not all it's cracked up to be either. Check out this article, The Assertiveness Myth: “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” -2 Timothy 1:7 In the 70's and 80's there was a fashion trend (a fad) in communication. Assertiveness Training was all the rage. It presumed that most people were shy and needed to assert themselves in order to take their rightful place in a conversation and get their point across. It was believed that charisma and persuasion were the solution to everything from winning arguments to...
A long while back I received an email that came through my website contact form:
"hi there - I am trying to find biblical quotes for each subject at school. I am stuck on IT and computing!! Any ideas please? thanks very much"
I think I responded with something like, "Are you serious?" Never heard back from this person.
What say you? Was this a joke or not?
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