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For God hath not given us a spirit of fear

I wrote this some time ago. I share why I'm so passionate about helping people overcome shyness and social anxiety. Part of it is because God did not give us a spirit of fear and part of it is because I lived it and it was so painful.  “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” -2 Timothy 1:7 KJV Fear in speaking with others is timidity or what we call shyness.  According to Webster’s dictionary, shyness means “sensitive and hesitant in dealing with others”.  This is not the spirit of power that should be present inside the Christian for we know that with the Lord all things...

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Free Shyness Workshops in our Facebook Group next week!

If you're struggling with shyness or social anxiety and you haven't yet joined my FREE Facebook group,Overcome Shyness & Social Anxiety to Unleash Your Unique Child of God!, you'll want to join me right NOW!   I'll be hosting a series of daily Facebook Live Workshops inside the group this coming week designed to supercharge your journey to overcoming your fear and build your confidence so you can fulfill your dreams for the kingdom of God!   If you are like me when I was young, you have a dream you'd love to build or a mission you feel called to fulfill, but fear is holding you back from meeting, contacting, or otherwise pursuing them! You may have tried to step out...

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Come Join My Brand New Facebook Group for Social Anxiety!

It's time to speak! With all the heated rhetoric in a post Covid world, I had long thought about how important communication skills are. Then, after a series of events, I came to believe it was time to add a new service to Art of Eloquence and that service begins with a FREE Group Coaching Facebook group for shyness, social anxiety, and social awkwardness so that the children of God may speak up about the things He has put in their hearts to share! . As many of you know, I was a painfully shy young girl and it took me YEARS to overcome it on my own. When I finally did, I realized that I was an extrovert who loved...

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Shyness Coaching Coming Soon!

If you or your child struggles with shyness, I've got great news for you!   Many years ago now, I wrote Say What You Mean: Overcoming Social Anxiety. Several of my customers have said the eBook has helped them a great deal, but one of my former customers came to me one day asking if I did any coaching.  As many of you know, I was an incredibly shy kid/young adult. It took me YEARS to break out of my shell and writing this eBook has given others the tools to do so. However, I realized that shyness and social anxiety are issues that require more than just an understanding of the problem. They need coaching to bring about true transformation and...

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Why Communication Skills are Especially Important for Christians

While most Christian persecution is much more physical and dangerous in other countries, the United States has taken and decidedly ridged stance against Christians.  Facebook, YouTube, and Twitter have been systematically deleting posts that are overtly Christian. Many Christians have moved to Parler in order to be able to discuss their views. However, I feel it's vital for Christians to to learn to communicate effectively with NONChristians because otherwise aren't we just preaching to the choir?  The Lord must think communication skills and important issue because there are hundreds and hundreds of scriptures telling us how we should communicate with each other.  Not everything is mentioned in the Bible, but something mentioned this many times should be studied, Amen? The world...

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