Disrespect: Funny? Justified? Or Ineffective?
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JoJo,
This is a great post. I totally agree with you, that even when we disagree with someone, we need to speak with respect and grace. This reminded me of a passage in Titus 2:7-8 "in all things showing yourself to be a pattern of good works; in doctrine showing integrity, reverence, incorruptibility, sound speech that cannot be condemned, that one who is an opponent may be ashamed, having nothing evil to say of you.
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I don’t always agree with Mr. O’Reilly. In fact, I criticized him for his interview with Barny Frank, right here on Communication FUNdamentals, but I agree with him on this issue! You not only make yourself less able to persuade when you do this, but you create an image for those who believe as you do—for the entire group you claim to represent.
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Wow, talk about in your face journalism. The entire thing makes for bad press and the fact that Jason would not stop talking to get an answer smacks of bad journalism. The problem with this situation is that emotions are coming into play. It translates in writing as well as face-to-face interviews. Yet, the problem is a two-edged sword. While his manner of driving in is not “respectful” either are his questions. So, in order to illicit the calculated response he had to act aggressively. I think he was looking for a reaction. Jason did not appear to take criticism well from Mr. O’Reilly either. I think we have to grow and learn in all of these situations.
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Very true Felice! He is looking to insight, not for respectful discussion of the issues, though he says he is. Unfortunately this does translate into written communication as well as oral communication. It also affects not just political issues but friends and family as well as internet friends and acquaintances. It simply isn’t the most effective way to make your point. It erodes your credibility as well as that of others you proclaim to represent.
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