Do folks mess up your name?
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Yes, my maiden name is Thombs which is suppose to be pronounced “Toms” like one would for Thomas only with a ‘b’ instead of an ‘a’. That never stopped anyone from pronouncing it “tooms” or “thumbs”. OYE! Then you have my first and middle name squooshed together, “BeckyJoie”. I get called Betty Jo, Becky Joey, Betty Joey, Bobby Jo, Bobby Joey and all kinds of funny things. They see the “oie” on Joie and put it on becky like this beckoie. OYE! OIE! LOL. BTW, Joie is the French spelling of Joy and I’m so glad people never pronounce it with a French accent. (“Jwa”)
JoJo, when I first heard your last name pronounced, I thought someone said, “JoJo is in Tavares”. Tavares is a nearby town pronounced “Ta-vair-ees”.
The pain of name calling. LOL.
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I have to “ditto” what Laurie Bostwick said. I very often get Laura instead of Laurie, and most people just assume it’s spelled Lori.
Now for our last name, Neumann, we spell it out and people still automatically spell it Newman. Oh well…
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Hey Sharon Ball! I’m with you sister! My married name is Ball and people just don’t get it. “Hall?” “Paul?” “Saul?” “Vaul?”. So I, also, SPELL IT, right away with a huge emphasis on the B! Nice post JoJo. :o)
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I am shocked at all the more common names that are misspelled or mispronounced. Do you think it’s more that people don’t take the time to get your name right?
In church on Sunday my Pastor said there was a recent study showing that people report being MUCH busier than they ever were before. It is so important to make folks feel special by at least paying attention to how they spell their name and what they call themselves.
You know, I have a habit of looking at the bottom of the email to see how someone refers to themselves before I address the email reply. Many times a “Rebecca” will refer to herself as Becky which usually is a clue that this is what she prefers to be called. But sometimes we see “Rebecca” at top of the email in the “from” field but don’t realize that she refers to herself as Rebecca and NOT Becky. This is also a clue that she doesn’t like a nickname.
Additionally, a Rebecca may really be a Rebeka or a Rebeca.
It’s so important that we make a little effort to address someone they way they are communicating they want to be addressed.
A social communication tip from your friendly neighborhood JoJo (Not Jojo!)
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My name gets misspelled ALL the time. There is an “H” in Theresa. I know some people don’t spell it that way, but I do! And don’t call me Terrie, unless I introduce myself as such.
My maiden name was Rindfleisch. So many ways to mess that up! LOL
Now my last name is Little, and yes, people ask how to spell it!