Effective Email Pt 5-Sig line

If you are just joining this article series, here is a quick recap.  Email has become a common form of communication in recent years, but so much of it is misunderstood that there are more communication issues with this form than there are with all the other forms put together.  So much of how we communicate face-to-face is received through body language, facial expression and tone of voice.  This is all lost in an email where we have to rely only on the words we choose.  So far I shared about the importance of choosing a good email address, your subject line and given you some tips for a more effective body of text in two parts. Today I’d like to talk about your signature line.

What should be in your signature line? 

* Your name…your FULL name!

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve received an email that was unsigned.  Makes it difficult to address the reply.  Dear 1234567@aol.com…

Even signing your first name may not be of great help.  I may not have the brain cells at 49 to remember your email address letter for letter so I’m not sure if you are Mary or Mary.  Mary Jones wanted to borrow my grey jacket but Mary Peterson wanted to come over for lunch at noon on Friday.  I’m not sure how to respond to Mary if the only thing I have to go on is an email note that says “So, is it okay?” signed Mary.  My brain immediately goes TILT as I try to remember if Mary’s email address is 6427@aol.com or is it the other Mary whose email address is 6247@aol.com.  AHHHH!

Now if you email for business, use your full name.  There may be other Bobs at ABC Company. After all, they do have 600,000 employees!

* Your title if you are in a large company

If you are emailing for business, always include your title in your signature line so folks will know what you do at the company.  It tells them what questions they may ask, what answers they can expect and gives you an air of authority when you answer difficult questions.

* A clickable website address

If you put your business or blog url in your signature line, for pitty’s sake, make it clickable!  I can’t tell you how frustrated I get as I to try to copy and paste it into a browser and have to put the “http://www.” on it.   I know it’s not all that much work, but I’m 49.  I’m going through menopause and I get a bit testy when I have to work harder than I feel I should!  HELP ME OUT, will ya?

Now on the flip side, do you know the chances of someone clicking through to your website vs copying it and pasting it into their browser?  Neither do I, but I’ll bet it’s LOTS!  The easier you make it for people, the more likely they will do something!

* How else to get hold of you

If you are emailing for business and you have several ways your customers can get hold of you, list them!  If you don’t mind being called, list your phone number.  If you don’t mind being texted, faxed, or you can interpret smoke signals, list your call sign!  That way if Mary doesn’t do well with email, she can call instead.

* Scripture or tag line

If you have a life scripture or tag line for your business, list it below your signature.  That gives your recipient a bit more information about you.  Always a nice touch to make an email a bit more personal and descriptive of you.  Helps with rapport!

What shouldn’t be your signature line? 

* Offensive words or negative comments

It pretty much goes without saying, that you shouldn’t put vulgar language in your email signature, but you wouldn’t believe the number of times I have seen negative comments in there!  I’ve had personal emails come through with things like, “John Smith, waiting for the day when I don’t have to live with my MIL!”  Uh…not good form.

* An ad

A tag line or signature verse is one thing, but don’t put an ad in there.  The first thing I think of when I see that is, Don’t Push Me!  lol

Kim Berly, 

http://www. I Want To Sell You Stuff.com

Buy three and get six free!  No shipping! Sale ends in five minutes!  Order NOW!

I SAID NOW!

Yup… just a bit pushy…

* A book

Research shows that people don’t like to read long text copy on emails.  If you’ve got that much information in your signature line, put it in a PDF, okay?  I don’t need your biography, your credentials, your pedigree or the history and evolution of your rise to corporate power!  I won’t read it.  ANY of it!

Well, that’s it for email signature lines.  Join me on Wednesday when I give you some tips for what to send and what NOT to send.

Until then…

Sincerely yours,

Me!

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Test Your Communication Skill Level

I hope you enjoyed Communication Effectiveness Month.  We talked about how communication skills affect just about every aspect of our lives from our parenting to our marriages and from our friendships to our careers.  If you’d like to assess your communication skills, here is a communication quiz I designed years ago.  I’ve copied part of it here, but you’ll see a link to the rest of it at the bottom of this post.

Communication Assessment Quiz

Check your CEQ: Communication Effectiveness Quotient.

1. How often do you feel intimidated by someone?
Always Often Occasionally Rarely Never

2. How often does intimidation prevent you from speaking up?
Always Often Occasionally Rarely Never

3. Do you shy away from conflict?
Always Often Occasionally Rarely Never

4. How often do you find it difficult to get your point across?
Always Often Occasionally Rarely Never

5. Do you find yourself angry with little idea of how to express yourself?
Always Often Occasionally Rarely Never

6. Are you ineffective in diffusing another’s anger?
Always Often Occasionally Rarely Never

7. Do you feel you are ineffective in getting what you want?
Always Often Occasionally Rarely Never

To finish the quiz, click here!

If you’ve identified an area that you’d like some help with, visit our website for a listing of various communication topics and age groups!

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Business Communication Seminar Today

If’ you’re a Christian working a small business, you need to join me this morning!

You may not realize it, but almost every aspect of your business involves communication skills. The more effective you are, the more success you’ll have in your business.

Jill Hart of CWAHM and a sampling of Christian Work at Home Moms join me this morning (9am PST/12pm EST)  to share tips and techniques for better communication with your customers, co workers, suppliers, employees and more.  We’ll discuss tips for customer service, sales, marketing, your blog, website, dealing with co workers, social networking like Yahoo groups, Facebook and Twitter.

Join us via your computer:

http://www.talkshoe.com/tc/19736

Or call in to the show:

Phone Number: (724) 444-7444 Call ID: 19736

The audio will be available immediately following the show, but if you listen in to the live seminar, I’ll be sharing a voucher code to purchase Say What You Mean When You’re in Business for HALF OFF!

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Vote for Long or Short Ad Copy

The 5th Deadly Communication Sin of Advertising is…

Loooooooooong Sales Copy
There is a controversy over this among the marketing gurus out there, but in my humble opinion, long sales copy only sells to men and, then, only when they are deeply interested in that subject. If you market to women, keep it brief! Most women are busy wearing many hats: wife, mother, housekeeper, baby sitter, teacher, medic, career woman… Most of the women I survey say that they don’t have the time to read long, hype-y sales copy that doesn’t reveal what they are selling until the very end. Most women like short and sweet ads that grab their attention and give them a way to find more information when they have the time to do so.

When I see a seemingly endless email or website with the typical white borders so that the sales copy is further elongated downward, my eyes get glassy and I develop a blank stare with an urge to gain relief by clicking the delete button or X out of the landing page.  Am I alone in this?  I don’t think so.  I’ve talked to many women, moms, wahms and busy homeschoolers who say they just don’t have the patience to read long sales copy and prefer to get, as Sgt. Friday used to say, “Just the facts, Ma’am!”

 

I don’t think I’m the only one who doesn’t even care to find out if it’s something I vitally need before I gain freedom from having to read all those words, especially on a computer.

What say you?  Do you like long sales or ad copy or does it make you wince?  Do you think it’s effective?  Is it effective on YOU?  Your husband?  Anyone you know?  Why do you think that is?  Please share what you like or don’t like about long sales or ad copy.

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Are you a reluctant wahm?

Many of you may remember that last year my editor and dear friend, Carla Ives, and I were co hosting a weekly podcast on TalkShoe.  Well, Carla had some family issues that required her attention so she had to leave the show and most of her online presence for a while.  Well, you can’t keep a brilliant woman down!  She’s back with a new venture to add to her repertoire!  It’s called The Reluctant Wahm.com and it is brand spankin’ new!

The site is only a few days old and it already has some wonderful articles for work at home moms who are either reluctant to have to work from home (are more used to or prefer working in a corporate environment) or , if it weren’t for the economy, would rather not have to work at all.  It’s a fabulous resource for all work at home moms and homeschooling moms who are working a bit to help dh with the family budget.  Carla is a wealth of information and she has a huge heart to help others.

Well, this morning I was indeed humbled and blessed to find a glowing post on her site about my work and Art of Eloquence.  I just colored my hair today so I don’t know which is more red, my hair or my face!  Though she is a tough and nitpicky editor, she is very generous with her praise and I am truly honored by her words.

Please visit her site and leave a comment welcoming her back to the internet after such a long absence and so many difficult situations in her life, some of which she is still contending with.

Thank you my dear, sweet friend!

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The New Art of Eloquence.com!

Art of Eloquence Has Had a Facelift!

I know what you’re thinking!  I promised to do this two years ago, but try as I might, I was unable to find the time to redesign the site with all the other events and projects I had going.  December 31st was my final podcast and I immediately got to work and it’s like Art of Eloquence bought a new hat!  See?

We’re still our old purple selves but we’ve got a totally new feel and I am happy to say it is MUCH easier to navigate and find what you are looking for!

First, the home page is completely redesigned to reflect the fact that Art of Eloquence no longer has just homeschool curricula and that we now have communication studies for various situations!  Now you can easily find whatever you might be looking for whether homeschool curricula, speech and debate, leadership training, defending the faith or business just by clicking on one of the top buttons.

Second, we have arranged it so that it is very easy to find and use all our free resources like my articles, blog, Foot in Mouth Man and all our free events!  You’ll find each of these buttons up at the top of the home page for easy reference!

A new feature is our Studies, Surveys and Statistics Page where you can read all about the research done on the importance of various communication skills and just who is looking for people who possess them!  We’ll be adding more soon but I got bleary eyed and had to move on to another task! lol

We now have a link right on the home page to our classic “Communication Effectiveness Quiz” where you can answer the questions to determine what areas of communication are your strengths and what areas are your weaknesses.  This is especially helpful for your children so you can understand where they need to be better prepared if they are going to be going to college in a few years!

In addition, we now have a few communication quotes listed right on the home page that you can click through in order to read even more Bible and other quotes of communication wisdom!  I have TONS more of those to add but that will have to wait a bit too.

Lastly, each of our subheadings has a new page that shares more about communication in that area of life and includes all the links to the various Art of Eloquence studies, audio classes and other resources that pertain to that communication topic.  The sub headings are: Homeschool Curricula, Speech and Debate, Leadership Training, Defending the Faith and Business Training.

I spent all day yesterday writing, rewriting and updating many of the pages of the website.  I still have to re work the product pages, but I’m done with the other pages.  We even redesigned FIMM”s page last week!

Since my eyes are now bulging out of my sockets and my brain is fried from looking at my monitor all day, I am wondering if you can help me see if I missed anything.  It’s possible that there might be a link that doesn’t go where it is supposed to or a word that has been misspelled.  We would appreciate it if you would take a few minutes to go in and see for us.

Please leave a comment with your thoughts.  Aside from the product pages, which all need to be redone yet, how do you like our new look?  Do all the links work?  Did we misspell a word?  Have a broken link?  Something that isn’t clear?  Help us work the bugs out.

Thank you much from the tired eyes, numb fingers and NEW DO that is now Art of Eloquence.com!

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