Occupy Wall Street: Effective Use of Freedom of Speech?

Occupy Wall Street:  Effective Use of Freedom of Speech?
By JoJo Tabares

I have to admit that, for the longest time, I really didn’t understand this movement.  I remember when it first came to my attention, I began searching the internet to see what they were about.  The media equated them with the Tea Party, others  denounced them as an unruly mob, but I couldn’t seem to get a handle on what they believed or their mission.  Never one to report on an issue I simply didn’t understand or take one man’s opinion as Gospel, I simply didn’t comment.

After some research and watching the effect on the cities they occupy, I have come to a number of conclusions I’d like to share at this time.  In point of fact, the Occupy Wall Street movement can teach us a great deal about the nature and effectiveness of communication.

1. Occupy Wall Street Has No Clear Purpose

One of the reasons I had such a difficult time understanding this movement is because they do not have a clear discernible purpose or underlying beliefs.  Looking through their website and listening to the protesters, the only purpose I can glean is that they wish to shut down Wall Street.  They don’t like big business, but there is no reasoning behind it, underlying beliefs or plan for the future.  They mostly complain that big business has everything and they have nothing.  They seem an increasingly large mob who lacks focus and, although the website declares it a peaceful demonstration, is increasingly violent.  In fact, their own logo depicts three tanks.

2. Compare and contrast with Tea Party

Both claim to be a grass roots movement formed as a result of poor economic times.  However the similarity seems to end there.  I, frankly, didn’t see the resemblance to the Tea Party who call themselves Patriots, depict a peaceful, organized and patriotic red, white and powder blue website. The Tea Party beliefs are clear. The website (and signs by those attending the events) states that they support “fiscal responsibility, constitutionally limited government, and free market economic policies.”  In addition, the Tea Party events have been non violent.

3. Freedom of Speech isn’t a license for violence

There is a huge difference between our constitutional right to peaceably assemble in order to exercise our freedom to speak against the government and a license to commit violence.  The constitution guarantees us the right to speak out, not the right to destroy, and not the right to be agreed with or even the right to be taken seriously!  And it is difficult to take seriously the speech of a group of people who are violent.  So, not only do they not have a clear purpose and plan, but they are hurting their own cause by acting in a violent manner.

4.Contrast with Martin Luther King Jr’s non violent civil disobedience

Many have equated the Occupy Wall Street movement with the civil disobedience of the 60s under Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.  I cannot disagree more! Dr King’s events were peaceful and within the rule of law.  His speech was about peace and unity.  He had a clear purpose and a high moral standard.

5. Contradictory Messages

One of the things that detracts from effective communication is a contradictory message.  It’s hard to be taken seriously if you send a mixed message.  If you say you are a Christian, but do not follow the Bible, if you advocate peace at all costs and then attack your neighbor for disagreeing with you, you destroy the strength of your argument.  The Occupy Wall Street protesters do similar things.  Their website says society could get along without big business, yet they are seen using and wearing products that these businesses provide.  They don’t advocate violence yet these events are quite violent.  Here’s a quote from one of the articles I read, “One protester says it’s worth getting beat and arrested for justice, peace and freedom.”  They blame big banks for their influence over politicians and govt, but they don’t call out the current administration for it.

Freedom of Speech is guaranteed under the first amendment of the constitution, but nowhere in that amendment does it guarantee you will be heard or have your ideas accepted.  In order for that to happen, your communication needs to be effective.   In order for your message to be effective, it needs a clear purpose and plan.  Further, it needs to work within the legal and moral system of society or it is simply intimidation and violence.  Lastly, it needs to be free of contradictory messages that weaken it’s effectiveness.

This month is Thanksgiving and we should be thankful for our system of government that allows us freedom of speech, but with that freedom goes responsibility and the rule of law.

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JoJo Tabares holds a degree in Speech Communication, but it is her humorous approach to communication skills which has made her a highly sought-after Christian speaker and writer.  Her articles appear in homeschool publications, such as Homeschool Enrichment Magazine and The Old Schoolhouse Magazine, which also endorses her Say What You Mean curricula.  You can also find JoJo on web sites such as Crosswalk.com and Dr.Laura.com.  For more information on communication FUNdamentals and Christian-based communication skills for the whole family, please visit http://www.ArtofEloquence.com

 

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I dunno or Let it Go

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We’re getting near the end of Grace Month. Just a few more posts to go and then I’ll have a seminar on Grace and Godly Communication with even more information on this topic and a chance for you to get involved in the discussion and share your thoughts and experiences on the topic.

Today I’d like to share with you two more excerpts from my article, 10 Quick Ways to Disagree in Grace.  These two sound kind of like no brainers, but you’d be amazed at how little they are used!

7. Say “I Dunno”
When you don’t know the answer someone needs, the most intelligent thing to say is “I dunno.”  The quickest way to lose credibility with someone is to speak too quickly.  If someone asks you something about the Bible and you can’t remember where the scripture is, tell them you will find it for them.  People appreciate honesty!

There is a social stigma today whereby people think they must know everything about everything or they risk looking stupid.  So there is often an urge to fill in one’s knowledge with, shall we say, assumed truths.  Made up facts or opinions disguised as facts are commonplace especially in business.  Many Christians feel that they cannot effectively share their faith if they don’t have all the answers.  This is part of the reason I wrote Say What You Mean: Defending the Faith.  It helps answer the issues the unbeliever has about God.  Not knowing all the answers keeps Christians from sharing and also gives us temptation to fill in our pregnant pauses with something that passes for knowledge.

If you feel the Lord leading you to speak out on a particular topic, by all means become educated on it!  However, there is nothing wrong with admitting you don’t know something.  In fact, it can be quite endearing and refreshing.

8. Let it Go
In order to avoid an argument, when they are no longer listening, stop talking!  As soon as someone is giving off signals that they are not accepting your views, it’s usually best not to press the issue and begin an argument.

Now I’m not talking about not sharing your ideas or backing off a discussion just because someone disagrees with you.  I’m talking about not pushing things beyond where you will do no good.  You can usually tell when someone’s had enough and is no longer listening to you.  No matter how sweetly you say it, they aren’t listening and so it’s rather redundant to keep talking.  Along the same line is when someone is annoyed because the speaker has been pushy.  Either way, the listener, isn’t.  You can do more harm than good by continuing on at this time. It’s better to let it go and live to discuss another day.

This tip applies to sharing your faith as well as any other topic.  Being right isn’t a synonym for being effective.  If you watch a lot of police shows, it may make more sense this way, “It doesn’t matter if he’s guity; it only matters what I can prove.”  In order to prove our point, we need to put it in a way that is grace-filled in order that the hearer is truly listening.  Nothing says “I’m not listening anymore” quite like the face you see when someone is pushing an idea past the point of civility.

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Give Grace A Chance

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After reading my title, I have that song stuck in my head now, don’t you?  “Just Give Grace a Chance…”  Continuing Grace Month with excerpts  from my article, “10 Quick Ways to Disagree in Grace” we come to numbers five and six.  I pray these tips have been a blessing to you and I would ask that you please pass along the link to my blog posts as there are so many Christians struggling to find comfortable or more effective ways in which to disagree.
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Sometimes Christians find that they may disagree with other Christians over doctrine or how they interpret scripture.  I have seen Christians lash out at a sister or brother in Christ and I have seen others stand idly by in fear of what their response would bring.  This is a HUGE topic that I actually address in several of my communication studies, but I want to address a portion of this here today: new Christians.
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5. Give new Christians a Chance
Before I ever came to accept Jesus, I didn’t know His Word.  I cannot accept what I do not know.  I had to spend time reading the Bible before I could grow in my faith.  The closer I grew to the Lord, the more I wanted to live my life for Him.  I didn’t start off witnessing. It wasn’t until later that I decided not to participate in things like Santa and the Easter Bunny.  Be sure not to stumble a fairly new Christian because he is not yet ready or willing to make a change.”
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We don’t want to stumble a new believer before he has an opportunity to walk with the Lord.  It’s so important that we discuss things and not argue the point.  Most new believers will need time to sit with an idea before they can really understand it.  Most people have the same issue with almost any new idea.  Nobody wants to be told they are doing things wrong, but often we do need to hear it.  It’s so much easier to share what we believe than to accuse or badger.  This allows us the freedom to speak.  It’s also much easier for the recipient to hear us discuss our different belief.  This allows the other person the freedom to listen and understand.
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Another issue we face with gracious disagreement, is when we notice the other party isn’t “buying it.”  LOL  As we attempt to discuss issues, we may notice that the other person isn’t accepting our facts.
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6. Address their Concerns
If they ask you a question, by all means answer!  Sometimes people may not come out and ask, but you can tell they have a concern by their body language or their facial expression.  If they object, by all means address it.  Calmly share what you know about their concerns.”
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Some will come out and ask you how you know X to be true.  Others will squinch up their faces or shake their heads from side to side.  This is a red flag clue that something needs to be addressed.  Do so.  Remember, that addressing their concerns doesn’t mean telling them the are WRONG or getting them to agree you are RIGHT.  It simply means that we should graciously attempt to clarify why they are having trouble with our idea and see if we can discuss it further.  Along the way, the other party might learn you are right or YOU might learn something about the other person that will allow you to explain your position more effectively.
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