Ask JoJo: Should parents address slang?

FIMM computerThere is a culture today where these young people use their own language and spellings such as ‘dis is mahh beautiful baby girl’ and ‘sumpin Is wrong wit dis Pictures’ (I actually took these from a couple of FB  pages of folks I know) and then there is the texting culture with abbreviated words. I know groups use their own slang to communicate with each other, but I wonder if there is a need to be concerned about  spillover into regular communication which could be cause problems… ie: job interviews, applications, etc. and how should a parent address this issue, if at all?”  -Joan

Studies show that slang and text speak has already been creeping its way into the workplace and school.  High school teachers and college professors complain that this slang or shorthand has been seen in reports.  Many employers have also complained that these practices have been rearing their ugly heads in emails to coworkers and also to customers.

I believe it was GoDaddy who had to send a formal apology to their customers when a cryptic email was sent out to their customers causing mass confusion as well as a less than professional appearance.  It cost the company quite a bit of money to rectify, in fact.

Parents should address the issue of appropriate communication with their children to let them know that the informal slang and texting shortcuts are not appropriate for school or the workplace.  They should address the consequences of these practices and how they may result in a poor grade in school and not being considered for a job or a promotion.  I suggest parents take a look at our study, Say What You Mean When You’re in Business as well as any of our high school/teen studies to help educate children on this vital issue.  Their career, happiness and relationships all rest on their ability to communicate effectively for each unique situation in which they find themselves.

 

NOTE: Don’t forget to submit your communication questions to jojo@artofeloquence.com for my monthly Ask JoJo section of my blog.  I’ll pick one question per month to answer right here on the blog!  You can ask anything related to communication skills from a tip on how not to be nervous making a speech to what games your kids can play that will help them hone their communication skills and even if your website or blog is clearly written!

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How to get our Conflict Resolution or Shyness Study for FREE!

Here’s our last Back to Homeschool Special Offer!

Buy Speech and Debate value package and get your choice of our Say What You Mean: Avoiding, Reducing and Resolving Conflicts study or our Say What You Mean: Overcoming Social Anxiety FREE!

Not only will you receive these two easy to use and fun studies, but you and your students will be able to decrease the jitters associated with making a speech by learning more about overcoming the anxiety people often feel in social situations and transferring those skills to speech making.  OR decreasing, resolving and avoiding the conflicts when you or your student is debating on a more personal level.

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To take advantage of this free bonus offer:

Just order the Speech and Debate package at the regularly low price this week.  Then forward the email confirmation of your order to me jojo @ artofeloquence .com and put either “FREE Social Anxiety” or  “FREE Conflicts” in the subject line.  It’s that easy!

I will email your copy within 48 hours of your order!  Just remember to order and email us before midnight PST on Saturday, August 31st. 

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NOTE: Don’t forget to submit your communication questions to jojo@artofeloquence.com for my monthly Ask JoJo section of my blog.  I’ll pick one question per month to answer right here on the blog!  You can ask anything related to communication skills from a tip on how not to be nervous making a speech to what games your kids can play that will help them hone their communication skills and even if your website or blog is clearly written!

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How to Get Say What You Mean for Moms FREE!

It’s Back to Homeschool Month here at Art of Eloquence and we have an INCREDIBLE series of special offers for you!

How would you like to get three free gifts?  Well, just stay tuned to this blog for details!

This week’s Back to Homeschool Special Offer:

Buy any two homeschool single titles at our regularly low price and get Say What You Mean for Moms free!

The picture featured here shows just a FEW of the homeschool materials we have available for PreK-Sr High school!  To check out all Art of Eloquence has to offer your school aged children, click the Homeschool Tab on the website or just click the link above.

 

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What is Say What You Mean for Moms all about?

Want to ensure open communication with your children?

Do you desire a close relationship with your son or daughter?

Avoid all the problems you’ve heard you’d have when your kids are teenagers.  

So many of you asked us to write a communication study for parents and children. This study is for new moms who would like the benefit of experience and for experienced moms wanting some tips for better discipline, communication, and stronger relationships with their children.

This study will include:

* Five Foolish Things Moms Say
* Twelve Ways Moms Undermine Discipline * Nine Foolish Things Moms Do
* The Dangers of Expecting Teenagers to Be Difficult
* Five Wise Things Moms Should Do
* Ten Ways to Talk so Your Kids Will Listen
* Five Ways to Encourage Open Communication
* Six Steps to Overcoming Overwhelm
* And MUCH MORE!
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To get Say What You Mean for Moms Free:

Just order any two individual Art of Eloquence homeschool titles at the regularly low price this week.  Then forward the email confirmation of your order to me jojo @ artofeloquence .com and make sure to put “FREE SWM for Moms” in the subject line.  It’s that easy!

I will email your free copy of Say What You Mean for Moms to you within 48 hours of your order!   Just remember to order and email us before midnight PST on Saturday, August 17th. 

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NOTE: Don’t forget to submit your communication questions to jojo@artofeloquence.com for my monthly Ask JoJo section of my blog.  I’ll pick one question per month to answer right here on the blog!  You can ask anything related to communication skills from a tip on how not to be nervous making a speech to what games your kids can play that will help them hone their communication skills and even if your website or blog is clearly written!

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Birthday Bash: 9am-Phyllis Sather

(DISCLAIMER: Communication FUNdamentals, our blog, normally only posts three times a week (MWF) but today we are having a new post/contest each half hour of the Birthday Bash.)

Phyllis Sather will be sharing on the Art of Eloquence Facebook fan page this Birthday Bash half hour.  Here is what she is offering as a prize for this half hour’s contest:

The Purposeful Planning Bundle

Includes ebook, handbook, and MP3!

“Is there really enough time to do  all that
God requires of you?” ( Charles Hummel)
Purposeful Planning will help you get the results
you want. ($17.95 Value)

To win this prize, you will need to post a comment to this blog post answering this question:  Name two of your favorite Art of Eloquence studies listed on our Jr/Sr High page!

We’ll be picking a winner from among the correct answers and contacting you via email so make sure you leave your email address on your comment post.

Don’t forget to subscribe to our newsletter for another chance to win a Birthday Bash prize from Art of Eloquence!  And you might want to subscribe to the blog RSS feed so you don’t miss a contest today!

Congratulations to our winner, Margaret Myette!

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