Big Whopper Liar Day

Today is Big Whopper Liar Day.  Do they really need a day in which to celebrate lies?  Is deception something we should aspire to?  I don’t think so. One of my pet peeves is glorifying destructive ideas and terms.

This is one of the reasons I am so against practical jokes.  I know some say it’s all in good fun, but I’ve seen too many practical jokes gone bad with some gruesome or devastating consequences.

Why does society glorify deception?  Sometimes people respect the skill required to pull off a practical joke.  Other times it’s the ability to get out of a sticky situation.

In some cases, they are called little white lies.  In others, they are called fibs.  Most lies are not meant to harm, though they are still meant to deceive and, as such, deception often has a way of causing harm whether or not it is intentional.

Though our parents have taught us that honesty is the best policy, society continues to glorify lying and honor those who master the art of deception…often not enforcing any consequences for their actions. Many sit coms today depict the main characters getting out of a tough situation by artfully lying.  Many shows have kids lying to parents so they don’t get into trouble or even parents lying to their kids in order to keep them in line.

It’s curious to me that today’s society places such value on the skill of deception and grants such grace to the deceiver while, at the same time, almost seeking out any opportunity to take offense when clearly none was meant.

In contrast, tomorrow is National Respect Day.  That’s something I can endorse wholeheartedly!  So I say, why not skip Big Whopper Liar Day and go straight to National Respect Day.  Do not sneak past go and do not deceptively collect $200.

What say you?

 

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Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire!

Liar, Liar Pants on Fire!
I hope nobody reading this is making a practice of lying to their customers, but I have seen spam come through with subject lines like…”Knew you would appreciate this site!” and “How are you?”  Anyone who knows me knows that I most certainly wouldn’t appreciate a website that sells pornography so when I open an email to find this website link, I am a little miffed to say the least!

This is an extreme example, but I have also seen subject lines that have nothing whatsoever to do with what they are selling. Most people find it offensive to open an email entitled…”re: your inquiry” only to find an ad for something that they had never *inquired* about. If you do send out emails, for whatever reason, keep your subject lines pertinent to your message.

While legitimate ads may not be sent as spam, they can resemble spam because they use the same untruthful tactics.  In the interest of making their subject lines POP so they will have a better chance of being opened, some advertisers bend the truth of their subject lines just a tad. “This is what you asked for!”  Even if I did ask for it, what is it I was supposed to have asked for?  The subject line has nothing whatever to do with the ad for a purple Rolex watch on sale for only $9.97!

If I find a headline or subject line that has nothing to do with the ad, it feels like spam to me and I won’t buy anything from that company–even if I had subscribed to their newsletter and bought from them in the past.  Lying just turns me off, even a small, white, ad lie.  What say you?  What’s been your experience?

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