Michael Jackson 911 Call

By now you have all probably heard that on Thursday two pop stars lost their lives.  Farrah Fawcett lost her three year battle with cancer Thursday morning and Michael Jackson died Thursday afternoon of an apparent heart attack.


One of my readers asked if I would be posting about Michael Jackson and, at the time, I didn’t think I would be.  Communication FUNdamentals is mostly about humor and communication skills.  Other than a few media stories in recent years, I haven’t really followed Mr. Jackson’s life so I wasn’t going to comment.  However, shortly after his death, there appeared to be some conflicting communication about the cause of his death coming from the transcripts
of the 911 tape.  It appeared that more was revealed by what was not said and not done.

I heard the 911 tape and was suprised at what it revealed.  I have no medical training at all so, at first, I felt I may not be able to properly discern anything from the tapes.  But a medical expert on the Sean Hannity Show expressed the same concerns and added one more piece of medical information that further shocked me.

The first thing that struck me about the tape was how polite the caller was taking the time to call the 911 operator “sir” often as if it was his nature.  You could tell he was nervous and not sure what to say because he repeated himself and the 911 operator several times.  Another thing that struck me odd was that this very polite unidentified man didn’t identify Mr. Jackson, but just called him “a gentleman here.”   Since he did know his age when asked (without having to ask the doctor for that information), it seemed to me that he was told not to identify him by name due to his fame.

The most distressing thing to me was when the 911 operator was told that there was already a doctor on the scene!  I was wondering why on earth that doctor wasn’t on the phone with 911 instead of this poor man.  I thought it would certainly speed treatment along to have the 911 operator briefed by a medical doctor who was with the patient at the time.  In fact, we find in the next few lines of the transcript/audio that the doctor was the ONLY one with Mr. Jackson when it happened.  The medical expert on the show said that, if it were his patient, he personally would be on the phone with 911 instead of giving that job to someone else.

The caller said that Mr. Jackson was on the bed and that the doctor had already tried CPR and was “trying to pump him.”  This sounds to me as if the doctor was currently performing CPR on the bed.  The medical expert on the show pointed out something that I had forgotten from my one and only CPR training.  You’re supposed to do CPR on the FLOOR!

Apparently the initial report on the cause of death didn’t show any heart disease that would be consistent with a heart attack so they are deferring the cause of death until more tests can be done.  The communication from the 911 tape  suggests negligence on the part of the attending personal physician.  Some reports say that Mr. Jackson had allegedly been receiving regular injections of very strong pain killers which might have caused a heart attack.  How very sad.

Farrah Fawcett was only 62 and had been fighting cancer for three years.  Michael Jackson was only 50 years old.  My prayers go out to their families and to this doctor as well.

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Communicating God’s Grace

This is a funny video from the Skit Guys, Christian comedians who show us how difficult it can be to communicate God’s grace.

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Arguing Fools

Never Argue with a Fool…

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Those watching may not be able to tell the difference!


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I Love Lucy: English Pronunciation

This is one of my favorite episodes of I Love Lucy.  Since this Thursday’s Grace Talk Soup is on the cultural differences in communication, I thought it’d be fun to post this segment of I Love Lucy where Lucy is trying to convince Ricky that his Cuban accent doesn’t afford him the ability to speak “Correct English”.  I especially love the part where he can’t figure out how to pronounce the different English words that all end in “ough”.

English is a funny language and even Americans have a “tough” time of it!  Or is that a “too” time of it?  LOL

Do you have a funny cultural communication story you’d like to share?  Come on the show on Thursday 8-9am PST and tell it!  Or just post it right here and we may read it on the air!

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Creative and talented A Capella Group!

These are the Voca People from the planet Voca.  LOL  They are an A Capella group. Every sound you hear is vocals. Not one instrument was used in the making of this video.  It’s amazing!


What creative and talented people can do!

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Hilarious Marriage Communication Video

Chonda Pierce is a Christian comedian who I was introduced to by my dear friend Cindy Holman.  Thanks Cindy!  I found this hysterically funny skit Chonda did on marriage miscommunication with another Christian comedian, Ken Davis.  Warning: Don’t drink your coffee while watching!

I do a humorous seminar/workshop on marriage communication called “How to Talk to Your Spouse…Cuz You Must!”  I’m available for speaking engagements.  Inquire within!

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Communication Pays!

“Communication is all anyone ever gets paid for ultimately…and if you cannot effectively communicate, you will pay…not get paid!” -Doug Firebaugh

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FIMM Strikes Again!

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Foot in Mouth Man’s latest MISadventure is up and ready for your reading pleasure and Friday giggles!  This month FIMM illustrates what frustration can be caused by not paying attention.  Our UnHero finds himself in the park with a mom who is desperate to find her daughter only to enlist the help of FIMM who is less than helpful!

Check out his latest miscommunication lesson here.  While you are visiting his page, you can check out some of FIMM’s past misadventures and view his video. Bring the kiddos!  After all, FIMM sticks his foot in his mouth for your amusement and confusement and to illustrate how NOT to communicate effectively.

Have you got a FIMM Faux Pas in your past?  Have your children been a FIMMpersonator?  Come share your very own Foot in Mouth Man stories right here!

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Mirror, Mirror on My Words

Mirror, mirror on my words

which reflect upon my heart.

Interpretation others find

whether I choose wisely or do not!

Americans understand that we have the right to free speech, but what we often fail to understand is that our communication has consequences.  What we say affects people either negatively or positively.  What we say may be interpreted the way we intended or in a way we never even anticipated.

Some of the things we say are of little consequence, but much of what we say may have dire consequences if we are not properly understood.  If we misspeak and everyone comes to our dinner party a day early while we are in our PJ’s, it could only be embarrassing.  But if we misspeak in our resume, we may not get the job!  If we misspeak while trying to sharing the Gospel with someone, we may inadvertently lead him away from the Lord.

What if we misspeak on our website?  Our sales brochure?  Our book?  Our letter to the editor?  Our ad?

I see so many marketing “gurus” who say that spelling doesn’t matter, grammar isn’t important and that mistakes are even preferable.  However, did you know that many times your communication is simply dismissed without you having any way of knowing?  How many times do people click out of your website because you have 16 mistakes in the first paragraph?  You may never know unless you engage the help of a good editor.

Our communication matters.  Many times it isn’t the words we use but the way we come across that makes or breaks our effectiveness.

If you’re looking for a good editor, you won’t do better than mine: Carla Ives from A Word Aptly Written.   She not only spots misspelled words from tall buildings in a single bound, but she allows your personality and style to shine through your work.

Want to hear more about this amazing purveyor of fine words?  Check out Grace Talk Soup!  She’s my co host each Thursday morning at 8am PST/ 11am EST.  But if you missed the live show, just scroll down to the show’s archives and listen to the past recordings.   You’ll be very glad you did!

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Your Communication Rights

Your Communication Rights:

“You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say will be misquoted, then used against you.” -Unknown


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