In 2002 another homeschool mom and I were talking about her daughter who was painfully shy. She discovered that I had a degree in Speech Communication so she asked me if I would be willing to teach a communication class out of my home that her daughter would feel comfortable enough to attend. Her daughter would have rather cut off her right arm than take a tradtional speech course!
I began looking for a curriculum that I could use. I had a few criteria that I wanted it to meet. I wanted it to be fun. It had to be Christian based. I wanted it to be enjoyable enough to bring her out of her shell. It had to be more than just a speech course because before this young lady would have to speak in front of crowds, she would have to find a way past her shyness enough to meet people and make friends! And lastly it had to be FUN! Humor disarms the fear and helps kids focus -even the wiggly ones!! When I couldn't find anything that fit the criteria, I decided to write my own!
Before I even had the study back from the printer, my class was full and I had parents waiting on my doorstep to buy it for use at home! The co op class was a huge hit that I was asked to teach it at several other local co ops. In fact, the whole notion of introducing humor to a very powerful and intimidating subject was so well received, that I began receiving requests to write a study for all different age groups and levels.
What is the Art of Eloquence Mission? Art of Eloquence is unapologetically Christian in its approach to the subject of effective communication skills. We believe in the literal truth of all scripture. Our mission is to teach effective communication to the Christian community in order that they may learn to stand up for their faith and honor the Lord in all they do and say! We strive to find fun, unique and interesting ways to help parents teach their children to express themselves well. We pray that our products will bless you and honor our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
What Makes Art of Eloquence Products so Different? Art of Eloquence products have a humorous approach to teaching these vital skills that are often looked upon with fear or intimidation. As I was getting my degree in Speech Communication, I found that most traditional speech classes were filled with boring text books. It was the teacher and his passion for the topic that made the subject come alive in class. I am a goofball by nature and I was a very shy child. It was my humor and sense of fun that lead me from the dark and lonely place I was as a child to the exciting and purpose-filled place I am today. Humor disarms the fear and engaging activities allow shy children the confidence to take their first baby steps into the wonderful world of self-expression, confidence and leadership. As they become more confident, they allow themselves to be exposed to even more experiences that help them overcome that shyness in order to blossom into the vital child of God that He created for a unique purpose.
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Art of Eloquence studies take a step by step approach that is less intimidating than the traditional speech class. Many of our customers are parents who are intimidated to speak in front of anyone dispite the fact that they had taken a speech class in high school or college. The old technique of throwing a child in the lake and letting them swim to shore has resulted in some good swimmers who looked upon that experience as one of surviving and overcoming. But others have looked back at that same experience with growing fear and a renewed conviction never to go anywhere near the water again. Art of Eloquence understands this and can help those who need to take smaller steps filled with confidence before they will take any more. The idea isn't to get your children through a speech class. The idea is to get the communication skills through to your child! It doesn't matter if they have made one speech or a hundred speeches. It is, however, a powerful tool in life to be comfortable and confident in their ability to speak up and speak out!
Art of Eloquence is the only communication course I know of that starts at the beginning. Preschoolers have a natural lack of fear and social anxiety. I have used that to my own children's advantage beginning at a tender age. The earlier children learn to be confident communicators, the more confident they will become. The later they learn to be confident communicators, the more difficult it is to overcome that fear once it has taken hold! I was very shy as a child and it really became debilitating in my teens. It took me years to overcome that shyness and realize that I wasn't inherantly shy; the shyness was simply masking the vibrant and strong personality that God had given me.
Art of Eloquence studies are wonderful for children with attention disorders. Both of my children are distractable learners. They are quite bright, but if not completely engaged in an activity, my message is lost. In the years I have been homeschooling my two, especially my son who has more ADD like symptoms, I have learned to create lessons that use as many of their five senses as possible. It helps them to focus and even retain more of the information. Everyone loves having fun and studies show that humor helps students to learn more of what is presented.
Why are Communication Skills so Important? Studies show that effective communicators do better in school, are more successful in their relationships, are more successful in their careers and are actually happier than those who are less able to communicate their wants and needs. But communication is far more than just a politician making a speech. Long before your son will be asked to give a presentation to his office, he will have to interview for the job! Even if your daughter never has to negotiate her salary, she will probably have to negotiate bedtime with her children! 87% of what we do all day is communication related. Everything we say and do communicates something to someone. Unfortunately only 43% of people feel they are effective.
Come join the Art of Eloquence family of fun and educational studies and products that help the Christian community to gain the confidence to stand up for their values and share the love of Jesus with others.
In 2002 another homeschool mom and I were talking about her daughter who was painfully shy. She discovered that I had a degree in Speech Communication so she asked me if I would be willing to teach a communication class out of my home that her daughter would feel comfortable enough to attend. Her daughter would have rather cut off her right arm than take a tradtional speech course! 
