Word of the Week: Natural

On Monday I posted about how doctors don’t communicate to their patients well enough.  Today I’d like to talk about something a bit outside the medical community, but still in the health industry.  This week’s word is Natural.  I posted about this a few years ago, but thought it was appropriate to bring it back this week to share with you a very important distinction that is not usually made when advertising health related products.

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By JoJo Tabares

You may never know it by listening to political rhetoric, TV commercials or the main-stream media, but words actually mean things.  Specific things!  If we allow ourselves to get caught up in the current trend to re-define words and to use them as we see fit, we end up saying nothing of value.  If we don’t realize that today’s societal trend is to adopt a Shakespearian attitude in applying meanings to words, we may be fooled into believing something that just isn’t so.

In the next several weeks, I will be sharing some of the ways in which words are misused or even purposely used incorrectly and how to discern the truth by paying close attention the real meaning of words.

This week’s word is…Natural.  Natural is a word misused by the advertising industry and is one of my Dad’s pet peeves.  Natural means “existing in or produced by nature : not artificial.”  (Merriam Webster.com)   Let’s take a look at some of the ways in which the word natural is used in advertising.

*All Natural  *Natural Goodness  *Naturally Good  *Naturally Delicious

“Natural” is an advertising technique.  Advertisers use the word “natural” in a way that leads you to believe that, if it’s natural, it has to be good for you.  This is not always true.  Here is a short list of things that exist in nature that are NOT good for you.

•    Tornadoes (and other Natural Disasters)

•    Scarlet Fever (and some people reportedly die of “Natural Causes”)

•    Cocaine (but this is not what you would consider a Natural High)

Why is this an important distinction?  Because not everything that is advertised as “natural” is natural and not everything that is natural is so good for you.  There are things that exist in nature that are not good for you when taken in large amounts-like salt.  If you drink too much water in a short period of time, you can die.  We know this from the radio stations that have had water drinking contests with disastrous results!  “Natural” potato chips may be better for you, but if you eat too many, you will still gain weight.  If you eat them exclusively, you are not getting the nutrition you need.

I remember a Bill Cosby stand up routine where his wife asked him to get breakfast for the children.  His young daughter wanted chocolate cake, which was already made and easily served.  He argued that it had natural ingredients like flour, eggs and milk.  Though his children were singing praises to dad for the chocolate cake with natural ingredients, mom didn’t believe it was a good choice for breakfast.

Related to all things natural is the word “Organic”.  Organic foods are all the rage lately.  Naturally good for you.  Consumer Reports did a study several years ago about Organic Foods.  They determined that organic foods containing no pesticides were no more healthful than those that used pesticides.  Actually, they determined that some organic foods might contain a larger amount of micro organisms for which the pesticides are used.  In fact, it found that it can be dangerous to buy organic fish and seafood because fish can contain mercury, which is also natural.

Many products use the word “natural” in order to get you to buy them, but some of them are really not very good for you.  Fruit snacks may have natural flavoring, but I wouldn’t suggest my kids eat many of them.  Something may be listed as “All Natural” but if you read the packaging, you’ll find that not all of the ingredients are natural.

In general, it is true that things are better the way they are created by God in nature.  However, not everything labeled as “natural” really is and not everything that is natural is really good.  Remember that the Lord gave the Jews many laws, the purpose of which was to protect them from some of the more deadly things that are “natural”.

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JoJo Tabares holds a degree in Speech Communication, but it is her humorous approach to communication skills which has made her a highly sought-after Christian speaker and writer.  Her articles appear in homeschool publications, such as Homeschool Enrichment Magazine and The Old Schoolhouse Magazine, which also endorses her Say What You Mean curricula.  You can also find JoJo on web sites such as Crosswalk.com and Dr.Laura.com.  For more information on communication FUNdamentals and Christian-based communication skills for the whole family, please visit http://www.ArtofEloquence.com

Words mean things, don’t they?  What say you about the “natural” things advertised these days?

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The word is humor

 

In honor of Ronald Reagn’s birthday this week, the word of the week is humor.  What is humor?

Merriam Webster defines it as “a: that quality which appeals to a sense of the ludicrous or absurdly incongruous b: the mental faculty of discovering, expressing, or appreciating the ludicrous or absurdly incongruous c: something that is or is designed to be comical or amusing.”
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Humor comes in many forms including: one liners, jokes, whiticisms, puns, slapstick, and sarcasm.  Some humor involves the telling of stories and Ronald Reagan had plenty of them always at the ready.  This is a rare YouTube video montage of his best Soviet Union jokes he loved to share.
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A celebration of communication technology

This week’s word is: Technology!  Word of the Week is a bit different this week as we are celebrating technology.

As I shared on Monday, I’m celebrating communication technology this week in honor of Johannes Gutenberg (the inventor of the printing press) who died on Feb. 3rd in 1468.  The printing press was a huge advancement in communication, but there have been many others that have contributed to our growing and changing communication.  Here are just a few of the amazing technological advancements in communication:

1439 Gutenberg’s Printing Press

1835 Samuel Morse develops Morse Code

1876 Alexander Graham Bell exhibits the electric telephone

1877 Thomas Edison patents the phonograph

1901 Guglielmo Marconi transmits radio signals

1925 John Logie Baird transmits the first television signal

1963 First geosynchronous communications satellite is launched

1989 Tim Berners-Lee and Robert Cailliau built the prototype system which became the World Wide Web

The question becomes whether or not these advancements have increased our effectiveness as it’s increased our reach.  I believe the advancements have both helped and hurt us as a social community.  I have written several articles on this and I’ll refer you to them here, but I’d like to ask what YOUR take on it is.

Communication Technology Doesn’t Replace Communication Skill!

How Important is Face-to-Face Communication in the Computer Age?

Influence of Texting on Communication Skills

Joseph Priestley said, “The more elaborate our means of communication, the less we communicate.” What is your experience with communication technology vs communication effectiveness?  Please share and pass this link along to others so they may share their experiences as well.

 

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Baba Yetu-The Lord’s Prayer in Swahili

This week’s word is prayer.  Prayer is communication with God.  The language of prayer is written by the heart of man.  In prayer we hear the Word of God speak to us, but only if we listen, which was the topic I chose to write about on Monday.

I recently came across an article about World Communications Day, which began in 1963.  It is the only worldwide celebration called for by the Second Vatican Council and is celebrated in most countries, on the recommendation of the bishops of the world, on the Sunday before Pentecost.  It will be celebrated this year on May 20th.  However, the article went on to say, “The Holy Father’s message for World Communications Day is traditionally published in conjunction with the Memorial of St. Francis de Sales, patron of writers (January 24), to allow bishops’ conferences and diocesan offices sufficient time to prepare audiovisual and other materials for national and local celebrations.”

God’s people speak many languages today so, whatever the theme of this year’s World Communications Day, I thought how wonderful it would be to aknowledge the various languages of the world as they praise the Lord!  This is a video that my daughter introduced me to.  It’s called, Baba Yetu, “Our Father” in Swahili and is actually The Lord’s Prayer in Swahili.  The music is incredibly rich, the rhythm is divine, the photographs are breathtaking and the harmony is heavenly.  Turn it up, sing along with the words and praise the Lord!

I’d like to revisit this theme during Resurrection Week and post a series of YouTube videos of people praising God or reciting the Lord’s Prayer in as many languages as I can find.  And I’d like YOUR HELP to do it.  During Resurrection Week on the Art of Eloquence Facebook Fan page, I’ll be posting the ones I have found.  I’d like my blog readers and fan page members to post any links YOU find that will help us celebrate during Resurrection Week.  You can post them as a comment here or on our fan page.  Thanks for your help!  I can’t wait to see all the videos. I have a few in mind already and I pray that, in addition to the beautiful time of worship, it will be a time of education about communication in other cultuers as they praise the Lord.

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What is Communication?

Communication is a word you’ve probably heard since you were young, but I’ll bet you can’t define it.  Some people think communication is talking, conversation, making a speech or persuading someone of something.  Others think it’s manners, etiquette or social graces.

Merriam Webster defines communication as “an act or instance of transmitting,” “information transmitted or conveyed,” “a verbal or written message,” “exchange of information,” “personal rapport,” or their most comprehensive definition, “a process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common system of symbols, signs, or behavior.”

Wikipedia has one of the most complete definitions of communication I have ever seen:

Communication is the activity of conveying information. Communication has been derived from the Latin word “communis”, meaning to share. Communication requires a sender, a message, and an intended recipient, although the receiver need not be present or aware of the sender’s intent to communicate at the time of communication; thus communication can occur across vast distances in time and space. Communication requires that the communicating parties share an area of communicative commonality. The communication process is complete once the receiver has understood the message of the sender.

I know I was subtle by putting it in bold, purple letters, but didja catch that last part?  I’d go one step further.  Effective communication is complete when the receiver has understood the message of the sender, the way in which the sender had intended!

True communication, effective communication requires that the listener understands the sender’s message in the spirit it was intended or the message is skewed, misunderstood and the relationship between the sender and receiver has changed or is damaged in some way.

Everyone talks, but not everyone truly communicates.  Everyone gets a message across, but not everyone has the ability to relate his message so effectively that his listener understands his message as it was intended.   Anyone can lecture, but not everyone can truly teach, enlighten.  Manners will only get you so far in a relationship.  A speech will not endear you to your neighbor.  A presentation will not help you resolve a conflict with your brother.  Social graces will not persuade a nation to elect the right candidate.  Etiquette cannot help you share your faith.  And the communication skills required for each of these activities are different.

Everyone learns to talk.  Very few learn to communicate effectively.  It isn’t because it’s a set of skills only important for lawyers and politicians.  It’s because society fully understands when communication is done badly, but does not understand that the reason behind the conflicts, divorce, lost job opportunities, and failed businesses is most often an inability to effectively express the vision.

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JoJo Tabares holds a degree in Speech Communication, but it is her humorous approach to communication skills which has made her a highly sought-after Christian speaker and writer.  Her articles appear in homeschool publications, such as Homeschool Enrichment Magazine and The Old Schoolhouse Magazine, which also endorses her Say What You Mean curricula.  You can also find JoJo on web sites such as Crosswalk.com and Dr.Laura.com.  For more information on communication FUNdamentals and Christian-based communication skills for the whole family, please visit http://www.ArtofEloquence.com

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5 Reasons Why the Silent Treatment Doesn’t Work

This week’s word is really a term: Silent Treatment.  This is a term (and a technique) used when someone has “done you wrong” and you pay them back by refusing to speak to them.  I recently saw a commercial for some silly show or other where the gal claimed the silent treatment was not effective because men like it!  She said if you really wanted to get your husband mad, you don’t give them the silent treatment; you continue to talk to him!  lol

Well, this got me thinking about how effective the silent treatment really is in every day, real life.  And you know what?  It isn’t!  Why?  I’ll give you five reasons:

1. They may rather like it!

As this woman stated, many people who are angry with you might actually LOVE it if you didn’t talk to them anymore!

2. They may not notice.

If they aren’t smiling because they are happy you’re not talking to them, they may simply have not noticed!

3. It’s hard to keep it up.

Even if they did notice and were upset by it, you can’t possibly keep it up for any length of time.  That is, if you have any sort of regular interaction with this person.

4. It doesn’t deal with the problem.

Not talking to someone may mean you don’t have to acknowledge them, but it may not mean you won’t be upset by them again.  They may continue to do the very thing you are angry about (over and over again) because you haven’t solved the problem, you’ve only stopped communicating–on YOUR end.

5. Where do you go from there?

So where does that leave you and your spouse, anyway?  Or you and your best friend?  Since it didn’t solve the problem, where do you go from here?  How can you get past an issue you don’t deal with?

The silent treatment may be a short term way for you to vent your frustrations.  And then, again, maybe it doesn’t even afford you that much! But what it will not do is solve the problem you have with that other person.  The silent treatment doesn’t solve a thing and can cause even more frustration and damage to your relationship.  My recommendation is to learn to deal with conflict.  Check out our sample lesson from Say What You Mean: Avoiding, Reducing and Resolving Conflicts at the bottom of this page and enable more blessings in your relationships in 2012.

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JoJo Tabares holds a degree in Speech Communication, but it is her humorous approach to communication skills which has made her a highly sought-after Christian speaker and writer.  Her articles appear in homeschool publications, such as Homeschool Enrichment Magazine and The Old Schoolhouse Magazine, which also endorses her Say What You Mean curricula.  You can also find JoJo on web sites such as Crosswalk.com and Dr.Laura.com.  For more information on communication FUNdamentals and Christian-based communication skills for the whole family, please visit http://www.ArtofEloquence.com

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Are Resolutions Christian?

This week’s word is Resolution.  A resolution is “a formal expression of opinion or intention made, usually after voting, by a formal organization, a legislature, a club, or other group.”  A New Year’s Resolution is one an individual makes usually based on his or her desires.

I guess what bothers me most about New Year’s Resolutions is the fact that God is rarely consulted or referenced.  Just because we want something does’t mean God wants it for us.  Sometimes He has other plans that  may need to be in place BEFORE or INSTEAD of the plans we have for ourselves.

This year, I resolve to listen to Almighty God to see what He would like me to do–not just on January 1st, but every day of the year.  Won’t you join me? What does God have in store for YOU in 2012?  Please share.

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Word of the Week: Resolution

Resolution: a declaration of intent to make a positive change in your life on January 1st that you don’t intend to keep past February. LOL

What do you think about New Year’s Resolutions?  Do you make New Year’s Resolutions? Please share your thoughts.

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Word of the Week: sesquipedalian

sesquipedalian \ses-kwuh-puh-DAYL-yuhn\

(adjective) – 1 : Given to or characterized by the use of long words. 2 : Long and ponderous; having many syllables.

(noun) – A long word.

“Because my father was a professor, I early picked up a sesquipedalian way of speaking.” — Damon Knight, ‘A Science Fiction Argosy’

Sesquipedalian comes from Latin sesquipedalis, “a foot and a half long, hence inordinately long,” from sesqui, “one half more, half as much again” + pes, ped-, “a foot.”

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Is it always desirable to use large, complicated, obscure or technical terms?  While having a large vocabulary is important for good communication, it isn’t always effective to use.  Here are a list of circumstances in which it is NOT effective to use your extensive vocabulary:

1. With small children

This is an obvious one.  Everyone knows it’s best to simplify their language when speaking with small children.  But what we often forget is why and how that might be a good rule of thumb to use with adults in other situations.  Why don’t we use big words with small kids?  Because they don’t understand them.  They don’t know the meanings of those words.  Well, as we will see in the next few situations, many adults don’t know the meanings of the technical, cultural or regional terms we use either.

2. Using technical terms with non technical people

A doctor may use the term “acute myocardial infarction” with his colleagues, but probably should use the term “heart attack” with most of his patients. Can you imagine going to the doctor and hearing him diagnose you with “sphenopalatine ganglioneuralgia?”  I don’t know about you, but that sounds rather scary!  Know what it is?  That’s the nerve pain of the sphenopalatine ganglion,” a form of brief cranial pain or headache commonly associated with consumption of cold beverages or foods such as ice cream.  In other words, brain freeze.  Don’t you feel better now?

3. Using insider terms with those outside

“My peeps!  Check it.  Going solo to the partay.  Meet ups late @ The Hang.  Kbers.”  Some terms are adopted slang that every teens becomes familiar with.  Others are regional or even between a small group of friends.  Using these terms with outsiders leaves the outsiders feeling like, well…outsiders!  Mary just moved here from a farm in Iowa.  She’s got no idea where The Hang is.  It’s just what these seven friends call Millie’s Diner on 7th Street because they always meet there.

4. When it will make you come across as pompus

“May I endeavor to determine the origin of your denim trousers?”  Nuff said!

5. When the technically correct or accurate word isn’t widely used or known in that circumstance

Sometimes there is a more obscure word we know that would best fit the message we want to convey.   Other times there may be a word that is not currently used in the correct way.  However, if we use it, we risk being seen as pompus or misunderstood.  Communication is not as much about the correct use of words as it is the way in which our audience will best understand our intended meaning.

A large vocabulary is a tool.  While you wouldn’t use a sledge hammer to do the work where a chisle will do, it isn’t advisable to use words that are equally overkill.  Each situation calls for a delicate balance of simplicity and precision.  Knowing which words to use is a skill you develop as you grow your vocabulary and hone your listening and observation skills.  Relating to your audience is key to communicating effectively with them.  How you do that will vary from person to person and from situation to situation.

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JoJo Tabares holds a degree in Speech Communication, but it is her humorous approach to communication skills which has made her a highly sought-after Christian speaker and writer.  Her articles appear in homeschool publications, such as Homeschool Enrichment Magazine and The Old Schoolhouse Magazine, which also endorses her Say What You Mean curricula.  You can also find JoJo on web sites such as Crosswalk.com and Dr.Laura.com.  For more information on communication FUNdamentals and Christian-based communication skills for the whole family, please visit http://www.ArtofEloquence.com

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Word of the Week: puerile

Puerile: pu·er·ile adj \ˈpyu̇(-ə)r-əl

1 juvenile

2 childish, silly <puerile remarks>

Example
I told the teenagers that such puerile behavior would not be tolerated during the ceremony

First Known Use: 1652

I’m 49 years old, but I’ve never lost my sense of silly.  In fact, when I get frustrated, my silly takes on a life of it’s own.  Said silliness happened last week whilst Gundar, my technology gremlin, was on my last nerve.  This was the result.

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